A PENIS: A Symbol Of Male Dominance & Violent Weapon In Gender-Based Violence
God's intent for a penis was two-fold; pleasure & pro-creation. However, the penis is about the most abused organ in males that has resulted in so much pain & trauma.
Wherever the penis is there is pain. We can not bury our heads in the sand & pretend that the penis is living out its purpose.
You see friends, we don't have a submission problem, we have a penis problem. The sooner we dismantle the ego & entitlement of this male organ, the sooner our societies will be safer to live in.
Stop pushing the "woman submit" theology, & start having an honest conversation about the wreck the penis is causing in our societies.
There is some idiot right now about to type in the comment section; "why are you generalizing because it's not every penis that is dangerous" I want to say to you right now; shut your effing mouth up, you shameless rape apologists. You are the enablers of sexual violence. By saying nothing you are supporting these rogue penises.
Eight female models from Soweto & Alexander were attacked, robbed & raped by armed men while they were shooting a music video at a mine in Krugersdorp South Africa.
What has angered a lot of South Africans is that these were foreign penises that were used as weapons against the eight South African women.
Armed with two deadly & dangerous weapons; a gun & a penis these cowards committed the unthinkable sexual crimes against models who were busy working.
I don't give an effing about the nationality of these cowards of men. Because weaponized penises are found among our people wherever this article is read, the penis is causing so much pain.
WHAT SHOULD WE DO TO THE ROUGE PENISES?
In popular culture, a penis is among the weapons counted among rockets, missiles, guns, bullets, cannons, swords & daggers!
Men find their ego in the penis that is why penis size is some macho thing like who has the longest & strongest penis.
They don't think about the pain & damage their penis may cause to unconsenting, & sometimes even consenting women.
We can not afford to fold our arms and do nothing about the rogue penis. We must stand up all of us whether you carry a penis or a vagina & say enough of talking, it is time to act.
Rape is not like the pain of falling off a skateboard or a bicycle. The victim of rape lives with the trauma for the rest of their lives. Even consensual intercourse is a nightmare for victims of rape.
Rape apologists in our communities & especially the growing trend of rape apologists in our Christian communities make it hard for the victims to heal.
The sense of entitlement that our Christian clergy feels they have over female congregants is heartbreaking.
Let me say this here & now, I don't entertain any Christian brother who is a rape apologist.
I often read here on social media how pastors defend fellow rapist pastors.
These days they are not even ashamed to claim that their married ministerial friends had consensual sex as opposed to rape. One would think adultery is an accepted lifestyle among the clergy.
"Oh, that girl is not telling the truth. I think she was enjoying it but now she must be angry because she didn't get what she wanted"
others go; "how can a big woman like her be raped. She just wants to destroy the man of God after enjoying sex with him".
These are telling stories of how our society protects the penis over & above the victims of rape.
What must we do? First, we are happy South African Police have arrested 15 suspects. We need to call for justice for every one of the eight victims.
These men don't deserve penises. We can't go on allowing undeserving males to have penises hanging between their legs. It is dangerous.
We must ensure that a rapist will never again use the penis as a weapon. The only way we can guarantee that is by chopping off the rogue penises & render them powerless.
Whether that penis belongs to a South African, undocumented, or documented immigrant chop that rogue thing out.
Deporting a rogue penis doesn't solve the problem. Sending them to prison with their weapon will just enable them to rape fellow prisoners.
Chop that effing thing & throw them in jail. After serving their sentence they will understand what celibacy by force looks like.
We also need to sensitize communities. Use schools to empower girls & boys on their rights. Too often girl children have no say over what is done to their bodies.
To know when an adult relative or not is abusing them physically or sexually.
To set up safe places where abused women & children can speak out & get justice. We should not emphasize the healing of rape victims over justice. There is no meaningful healing without justice.
South African legislature must create a Sex Policy for Churches. Churches are the worst culprits of penis rogues. Some kind of guideline for those in pastoral ministry, those in music ministry & those in children ministry. We can not have penis rogues running children's Sunday school.
Civil society should push Parliament to enact laws that are pro-victim. Parliament is full of males, without pressure from civil society men will not enact laws that seek to stop them from accessing female bodies at any cost including rape!
Any pastor or leader who conceals any sexual violence in churches should receive the same punishment as the sexual offender.
Any parent, aunt, cousin or uncle who conceals rape in the family should get the same punishment as the rapist.
I Pray for the victims of the Krugersdorp sexual assault. I pray you live to see justice in your lifetime.
To foreigners who have made a stench of us, all shame on you!!! Shame!!!
While sexual crimes are done by South Africans too, a guest should endeavor to respect both the law, & the people who have shown them hospitality. This arrogance by foreigners is bad. Some know they cannot do the same in their countries of origin without consequence.
I distance myself from any kind of lawlessness but especially Gender-based violence & femicide.
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