INTIMACY MOMENTS CANNOT BE REPLICATED
One morning I turned on Michael W Smith Worship Album. From forever to heart of worship, to Draw me close to you I felt God's presence.
Every song hit some cord in my heart and ignited different emotions from praise to worship, to repentance, thanks giving to petitions.
I prayed, cried with deep groanings. It was like the heavens were open and that intimate moment was beautiful I didn't want to stop I went on and on for hours.
A few days latter I wanted to experience what I experienced on that day. In my mind I got it all figured out.
I will just turn Michael W Smith Worship Album & the music will get me the same results I had on that day. But when I did I didn't have the same experience.
It felt dry and empty and it was like this time around my prayers were just hitting the roof.
The lesson I got was that God is doing a new thing every day. You can't hold on to yesterday's euphoria or intimacy and expect it to be the same every time you seek intimacy with God.
Intimacy is beyond feelings. It's believing that God is with you when you feel goosebumps & when you don't feel anything.
And this is so true with married couples. Not every moment of husband & wife intimacy results in sparks, electricity, touching cloud Nine or triple orgasms.
The great sex you had on Sunday cannot be replicated on Monday. Each day of sexual intimacy is about doing a new thing not the same sex gymnastics you had on Sunday.
Guys will be getting sex tips from friends. Just because James said his wife goes crazy when he sucks her tits it doesn't mean you also need a feeding bottle.
Know your partner well enough to know which places to touch that makes her feel things.
Study your partner's sex switches, not the porn you watch. Your partner is not a porn actress, her sexual needs are different from the porn actress.
Sometimes I don't feel like praying but I pray anyway.
And sometimes you don't feel like sex but you do it anyway for your partner.
See, that there is giving & sharing of conjugal rights.
But when you worship foreign god's & bring the same rituals into the Worship of One true God, the result is idolatry.
Keep your marriage bed holy, don't inact the sex your hard with a stranger into your matrimonial bed.
You are contaminating your marriage bed, and just because your spouse doesn't respond like that other stranger doesn't mean he/she is boring.
Don't bring foreign gods into your marriage bed.
And so from that experience, (I mean the worship experience) I learnt that just as the mercies of God are new every morning, our sacrifices of worship & praise to God must be new every morning.
Intimacy is in the now, not in the past. It is a daily discovery, marital sex is an adventure.
Good Night 🌃
Lawrence Musunte
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